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Therapy for Men with Relationship Issues in Somerville, MA

Cut through the noise, tackle the tough stuff, and bring the spark back.

Helping men shatter old patterns, conquer the impossible conversations, and reignite passion—because being the partner you’ve always wanted to be starts with rewriting the rules of connection.

You're doing well in so many areas of your life—your career is thriving, your friends are supportive, and your kids bring you so much joy. But when it comes to your relationship with your partner, things feel like they're falling apart.

Maybe you come home after a long day, hoping to connect, but the conversation quickly turns into criticism or silence. You’ve tried planning date nights, but they often end in arguments or feel distant, leaving you even more discouraged.

You might find yourself snapping over something small—like a forgotten chore or an offhand comment—and then spending hours regretting how you handled it. Or maybe you retreat,

spending more time on your phone or staying late at work to avoid yet another tense evening.

At night, you lie awake replaying the same fights in your head, wondering what you could have said differently or how things got this bad. You've tried to make changes, but when you’re stressed or emotional, you slip back into old patterns—like shutting down, getting defensive, or saying things you don’t mean.

It’s exhausting and heartbreaking because you’re trying so hard, but it feels like the more effort you put in,

the more distant you both become.

You're in the right place. My job is to help you uncover your softer feelings (yes, if you breathe, you have softer feelings!) and share them with your partner in a way that truly connects.
It takes courage, but you’ve already proven you can do hard things.
You know how to put in the effort—let me guide you in showing up for your partner in ways that make them feel deeply loved and valued.

Real change starts when you get real with yourself. It’s not about fixing anyone else—it’s about breaking your own patterns and showing up as the best version of YOU.
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Therapy for Men with Relationship Issues in Somerville, MA - Parenting When You Weren't Parented Well

The family you dreamed of building feels far from the one you see in front of you.

Deep down, you fear that the problem might be you.

You find it hard to stay engaged, struggle to speak your partner’s love language, and wish you could turn off distractions to truly tune in to your kids.

You wanted to create a family so different from the one you grew up in, but you’ve never had a clear plan to make it happen.

Together, we can uncover that plan—the vision you held when you first dreamed of being (or becoming) a father. In our sessions, we’ll explore what fatherhood means to you and work through the blocks standing between you and the family life you’ve always wanted.

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Couples Counseling

Online in all of Massachusetts

Break free from the cycle of defensiveness and distrust. Rebuild a stronger, more fulfilling connection and find healing after infidelity or other relationship wounds.

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) is an evidence-based, active, and structured approach that guides couples through proven methods to rebuild trust and strengthen emotional connections.

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Individual Therapy

Online in all of Massachusetts

Personalized and effective, individual therapy helps you explore what’s within your control—whether it's improving work-life balance or understanding your role in relationship struggles. It empowers you to uncover the best path forward, providing clarity and guidance to overcome challenges in both your personal and professional life.

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Intensive Therapy

Online in all of Massachusetts

Accelerate your healing journey without compromising your busy schedule. Choose from flexible intensive therapy options, including ongoing mini-intensives as an alternative to traditional weekly sessions. Couples can also opt for transformative one-day or deep-dive two-day immersions, specifically designed to address issues like infidelity or ongoing relationship challenges.

Fun Couples Activities in Somerville, MA: Unforgettable Dates for Every Pair

  1. Explore Union Square's Vibrant Food Scene
    From delicious tacos at El Potro to gourmet coffee at Bloc 11, Union Square is a foodie's paradise. Try a new spot or make it a culinary adventure!

  2. Catch a Show at the Somerville Theatre
    Enjoy a classic film, live comedy, or a local band performance in this charming, historic theater. It’s a perfect cozy date night option.

  3. Walk Through the Mystic River Reservation
    Take a peaceful stroll by the river, bike along scenic trails, or enjoy a romantic picnic in this beautiful outdoor escape.

  4. Visit the Museum of Bad Art
    For a fun and quirky experience, explore this unique museum dedicated to "bad" art. It’s a conversation starter and a guaranteed laugh!

  5. Try Indoor Rock Climbing at Brooklyn Boulders
    Challenge yourselves with some indoor rock climbing. A great way to bond, work as a team, and get a fun workout together.

  6. Take a Cooking Class at Stir
    Get hands-on in the kitchen! Learn to cook something new and enjoy the fruits of your labor with a delicious meal you both prepared.

  7. Drink and Play at A4cade
    Have some playful competition at A4cade, an arcade bar with classic games, pinball machines, and great craft beers.

  8. Explore Somerville’s Street Art
    Walk around and admire the vibrant murals and street art that dot the area. Discover new pieces and maybe even snap a picture or two!

These fun ideas will keep you and your partner engaged, entertained, and making memories in the heart of Somerville.

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Discovering Somerville, MA: A Dynamic Hub of Culture and Creativity

Somerville, MA, is a vibrant city known for its eclectic mix of cultures, rich history, and thriving arts scene. Located just a few miles north of downtown Boston, it boasts a variety of neighborhoods, each with its own unique character. From the bustling streets of Union Square to the artistic energy of Davis Square, Somerville is a haven for food lovers, art enthusiasts, and those who enjoy a lively urban atmosphere.

Somerville is home to the iconic Davis Square, where you’ll find local gems like TITS (The Tasty Burger), a must-try spot for delicious comfort food, and the renowned Somerville Theatre, known for hosting indie films and live performances. Assembly Row, a modern shopping and dining district along the Mystic River, offers a variety of retail shops, top-tier restaurants, and scenic riverside walks.

The city has a growing reputation for its innovative spirit, with local businesses and startups often leading the way in tech, food, and the arts. For those interested in art, Somerville’s ArtBeat Festival and vibrant street art murals around the city showcase its creative energy. Whether you're looking to explore local breweries, attend a live performance, or simply enjoy a walk through its parks like the Mystic River Reservation, Somerville offers something for everyone. With its blend of old-school charm and contemporary cool, Somerville is a dynamic city that invites both visitors and residents to explore and enjoy its many layers.

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Kimberly Schildbach M.Ed. MFT LMHC

The best way to reach me is email: 

kim@kimberlyschildbachtherapist.com or fill out my contact form.

(413) 367-4903‬

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