Exceptional therapy that goes beyond the expected.
Kimberly Schildbach, LMHC
Couples + Relationship Therapist
Discernment Counseling for Couples
Divorce and Relationship Support for Individuals
Online-only practice serving MA, CT, VT & FL
I’m built for the hard stuff.
If you’re ready to do the work, I’m ready to go there with you.
Welcome
I work with couples in the thick of it—infidelity, high-conflict, and the “do we stay or go?” moments.
I keep my caseload small on purpose so you get my full attention. I don’t just “see couples.” I specialize in them.
I’ve logged thousands of hours in the deep end—with partners who feel raw, shut down, angry, or just done. I’ve got the reps. I know what to look for. I’m not afraid to go straight into the fire with you.
No blame. No shaming. I help you unpack the pain, name the patterns, and figure out what’s really happening underneath the same fight you’ve had a hundred times. I’ll ask the hard questions, hold the heavy stuff with compassion, and help you move toward clarity—whatever that ends up looking like for you.
This work is hard. It’s also what I love. I bring my whole self into the room: I’m a wife, an adoptive and bio mom, a Corgi wrangler, pudding enthusiast, and a pro-level napper.
I’m grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Attachment Science, and trauma-informed care—because after 20 years in the field, it’s the only approach I’ve seen that actually works.
If you’re ready to do the real work, I’m ready to begin.
Clinical Experience
I am dedicated to providing you with the highest quality care. I continuously invest in my professional development through ongoing training and certifications to ensure I am equipped with the latest tools and techniques to support your healing journey.
Education and Licensure: M.Ed. in Multicultural Education from UMass Amherst M.Ed. in Marriage and Family Therapy from Springfield College Licensed Mental Health Counselor (Massachusetts #6755) Connecticut Professional Counselor (Connecticut #8256) LMHC Florida Telehealth Registration (TPMC5433) LMHC Vermont Telehealth Registration (068.0135181TELE) Certification in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (in process, expected May 2025) Certification in Discernment Counseling (in process, expected June 2025)
Training: ICEEFT - Approved Externship with Terri Murphy and James Hawkins -four days of focused training Core Skills in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) - with Ryan Raina - four days of advanced EFT training. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Healing Trauma in Couples with Kathryn Rheem and Jennifer Olden. Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Level 1 Certificate Course. Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Level 2 Certificate Course. AIRM - Attachment Injury Repair Model - Healing for infidelity or other attachment injuries and betrayals. Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) for Grief: Attachment-Based Interventions to Move Clients Through Loss into Growth and Resilience Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy for Attachment Trauma with Leanne Campbell Tango EFT x Steps and Stages. Rapid Role Plays: Micro Skills for Stage 1 and Stage 2 in EFT. Move 1: Laying a Foundation for a More Present Embodied Tango Training. EFT Cafe - ongoing training with real couples and office hours. Substance Abuse Training from The Recovery Centers of America. Reproductive Trauma and Attachment Training: EFT for Individuals and Couples Facing Infertility and Pregnancy Loss with Kristy Koser, PHD, LPCC Healing Affairs: The Power of Emotionally Focused Therapy with Scott Woolley PhD - Two day training Fighting for Connection: EFT When Couples Suffer With High Escalation and Violence: Two Day Training
Are we a good fit?
We are a good fit if....
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You really want to heal the relationship with your partner, know more about what makes you tick, and keep those changes for the long haul.
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You want a therapist that gently challenges you and is committed to your growth.
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You want understanding and compassion as you learn to change.
We might not be a good fit if.....
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The primary goal is to obtain advice or quick fixes rather than engaging in deeper emotional exploration and relationship work.
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If engaging in couples therapy, one or both partners are unwilling to actively participate in the process of change.
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You’re not yet convinced that therapy brings about real transformation.
Guiding Principles
Confidentiality
Many of my clients are successful, high profile individuals. Your confidentiality is of high importance to me. I conduct my online sessions on my HIPAA compliant platform - Simple Practice. Emails are sent from my HIPAA compliant Google Workspace.
Connection
We know that connection and the therapeutic alliance is key to the success of therapy. You will find me spending the last moments of sessions checking in to see how we're doing. If at any point, you believe you would be better served by another therapist, I will help you find them.
Effective Treatment
I use evidence based treatment such as Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Discernment Counseling, and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy. I'm committed to ongoing training and certification to give you the highest level of care.
Collaboration
I work in a collaborative manner. You are welcome to ask questions about the course of therapy or inquire as to where and why I'm leading you where I'm leading you. I am honored you've chosen to partner with me for your mental health care.