Kimberly Schildbach
MEd (x2), LMHC
Couples and Relationship Therapist
Your relationship deserves expert, structured support. I specialize in helping couples facing the most difficult challenges regain connection and clarity quickly.
I provide online therapy for a select number of couples in Massachusetts, Connecticut, and Florida. Early, focused support can help couples navigate difficult moments before patterns deepen—availability is intentionally limited to maintain quality care.
Welcome
I work with couples in crisis—couples navigating infidelity, conflict, long term disconnection and heartbreak of trying to decide whether to work on their relationship or divorce.
I keep my caseload small on purpose so you get my full attention. I don’t just “see couples.” I specialize in them. I’ve logged thousands of hours with couples and the repetitions matter. I know what to look for. I know what we need to do to help you feel like a team again.
I help you unpack the patterns you're both stuck in and focus on what’s really happening underneath the same fight you’ve had a hundred times. I’ll ask the hard questions, hold the heavy stuff with compassion, and help you move toward clarity—whatever that ends up looking like for you.
This work is what I love. I bring my whole self into the room: I’m a wife, an adoptive and bio mom, a Corgi wrangler, pudding enthusiast, and a pro-level napper (I won't bring that part into our sessions.)
I’m grounded in EFT, Discernment Counseling, Parts Work, Attachment Science, and trauma-informed care. After two decades with high-conflict couples and those facing huge decisions, I trust these approaches because I’ve watched them work—again and again.
Guiding Principles
Confidentiality
Many of my clients are successful, high profile individuals. Your confidentiality is of high importance to me. I conduct my online sessions on my HIPAA compliant platform - Simple Practice. Emails are sent from my HIPAA compliant Google Workspace.
Connection
We know that connection and the therapeutic alliance is key to the success of therapy. You will find me spending the last moments of sessions checking in to see how we're doing. If at any point, you believe you would be better served by another therapist, I will help you find them.
Effective Treatment
I use evidence based treatment such as Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Discernment Counseling, and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy. I'm committed to ongoing training and certification to give you the highest level of care.
Collaboration
I work in a collaborative manner. You are welcome to ask questions about the course of therapy or inquire as to where and why I'm leading you where I'm leading you. I am honored you've chosen to partner with me for your mental health care.
Are we a good fit?
We are a good fit if....
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You really want to heal the relationship with your partner, know more about what makes you tick, and keep those changes for the long haul.
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You want a therapist that gently challenges you and is committed to your growth.
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You want understanding and compassion as you learn to change.
We might not be a good fit if.....
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The primary goal is to obtain advice or quick fixes rather than engaging in deeper emotional exploration and relationship work.
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If engaging in couples therapy, one or both partners are unwilling to actively participate in the process of change.
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You’re not yet convinced that therapy brings about real transformation.
Clinical Experience
I am dedicated to providing you with the highest quality care. I continuously invest in my professional development through ongoing training and certifications to ensure I am equipped with the latest tools and techniques to support your healing journey.